Lesa Koski Mediation of Stillwater, MN, offers a wide variety of services for couples in the process of settling a divorce, and specializes in working with couples who have an existing working relationship, but still need some help with the issues they have had trouble working through. If you are just learning about the concept of mediated divorce, and you are in the process of seeking a divorce from your spouse, Lesa Koski Mediation offers an alternative to the more familiar form of seeking divorce through the court system. The laws of Minnesota are different from the laws of other states, and our staff are experts in this area.
Mediated Divorce Is Collaborative Process
More and more couples are seeking mediated divorce to settle important issues such as child custody, child support and division of assets. Lesa Koski Mediation approaches mediated divorce as a collaborative process. Even if you are experiencing a contested and acrimonious dissolution of marriage, Lesa Koski can help you identify the causes of those feelings, deal with them better, and chart a course for a more amicable divorce from your spouse.
By taking the position of collaboration, Lesa implicitly requests the divorcing couple to invest in creating the best possible solution, as opposed to simply indulging in the more immediately gratifying, but ultimately destructive, emotions that create the stereotypes so many of us have about divorce. This approach builds trust and open communication and is highly effective with couples who have just a few remaining issues to resolve between them. This also gives the divorcing couple some control over the outcome of these issues, rather than putting that control into the hands of the court.
Staying Positive: Divorce Mediation Stillwater MN
Lesa Koski Mediation can help you maximize the best possible outcome for your divorce. By approaching matters with realism and forthrightness, Lesa provides an indication of its commitment to helping you and your spouse come out of divorce in the healthiest way possible. This approach is especially important when there are children involved. And if children are involved, they will be affected by the divorce of their parents. Lesa Koski Mediation approaches this reality with the same kind of perspective: By suspending your most negative responses to your spouse and to the divorce, you will be in a better position to help your children come through the process as well as possible.
There is no doubt that divorce is difficult and complex. Divorcing couples must decide how best to provide for their children, determine the time they spend with each parent, and divide common property. But with the help of a qualified mediation service like Lesa Koski Mediation, you are far more likely to get through the stress of divorce in a much better state and will soon be able to look to the future that lies ahead for you.